What We Do
KinkToberFest is an immersive, inclusive, and exhilarating four-day journey of discovery, connection, and play—brought to you by NM-REAL and our vibrant community of collaborators. Whether you’re coming to learn, to play, to connect—or all of the above—there’s something at KinkToberFest for everyone 21+ who craves excitement, education, and exploration in our community. Kinktoberfest is an inclusive event coordinated by NM-REAL and the community, four fun days in October over three weeks for those 21 years of age and older. Come to just socialize; come to just learn; come to just play; or come to mix and match how you feel. Come solo, come with friends, or come make new ones! Each day blends high-quality educational classes with unforgettable play parties in a welcoming, inclusive space. Think of it as your perfect fall escape—part kinky con, part community gathering, and all unforgettable fun. Two Friday evenings, and one weekend on Saturday and Sunday. The Saturday-Sunday event includes more class time, and a closing community social lunch barbeque. Mark Your Calendar. Grab Your Gear. Tell Your Friends. KinkToberFest is more than an event—it’s a celebration of who we are, how we play, and what we create together. We can’t wait to see you there.
More About Our Event
Things We Do
Classes That Empower & Inspire Expect 60-90 minutes class sessions plus one 3-hour intensive! Our classes will be facilitated by instructors from across the country and local expertise. We have space for 16 classes that we’re coordinating now. We expect classes to include Cigar Service & Play, Tools for Resolving Internal Community Conflict, Navigating Dominant Culture Spaces, Rope Series, Electroplay, and many more. Play Parties: Our pansexual, sex-positive play parties are tailored to offer something for everyone. We’ll have separate safe space for female-identifying and male-identifying encounters. Optionally participate in our BDSM areas that includes dungeon equipment. The larger play space is for fun social interactions, sexual explorations, light- volume DJ music, as well as kinky entertainment may entice you. Dungeon space will be quieter for more relaxed social interactions and BDSM play. Our facility has lockers you can use to store your belongings. Bring your own lock or purchase one locally for a small fee. Our party themes will set the mood, but you decide how much to participate. Whether you love costumes, prefer leather, or enjoy going au naturel, you’re welcome here. To fit into the seasonal mood these are our themes: Friday Oct 17 – Carnival of Horror, Friday Oct 24 – Haunted House, Saturday November 1 st – Dia de Muertos (Day of the Dead), Sunday Nov 2 nd – Community. Cost to Attend: Check out the informaiton on this website for ticket cost. Usually the sooner you purchase, the less expensive it will be! Process to Attend: All attendees must be 21+ with government ID and sign a community behavior agreement. Our goal is to foster trust, safety, and joy—together.Vendors & Artisans
We Seek Quality Vendors, Artisans, and Bootblacks for Kinktoberfest! We have space for a limited number of vendors, artisans, and Bootblacks at the event. We typically provide space for each vendor without charge at this time. As we get closer to the events, we can provide more expectation on attendance and discuss your participation. Please contact us.Sponsors
We Seek Community and National Sponsors We appreciate sponsors that help make our event happen! Sponsorships include mention or advertising on various websites, posters or banners at events, handouts, and email notices to attendees. Sponsorships may be tax deductible through our 501c3 status. This may also be a business expense. Please contact us.Educators
We Seek Quality Educators - National & Local! If you have something exciting to teach our community, please contact us about becoming an educator at Kinktoberfest. Please have a clear idea, class summary, explanation of how you’ll teach and what you’ll need. Also please have references that are familiar with your teaching. If you’re new to education, please still contact us so we can help you get started on the fun journey of educating our community. Educators will receive discounts on attendance and may receive other benefits from the KinkToberfest organizing committee. Please contact us.
Find Us:
email: info@kinktoberfest.com
Fet: Kinktoberfest, NM-REAL
FB: facebook.com/NewMexicoREAL
Web: Kintoberfest.com (you’re here now)
Web: nm-real.org
When We Do It
KinkToberFest 2026 will occur in October 2026. Check other parts of the website for more information. We may hold other Kinktoberfest-related events throughout the year. We also hold New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair throughout the year at special events.
Event Partners
We have event partners to help spread the word about other cool events in the community. Check out these events to see if they make sense for you!
What We Do
KinkToberFest is an immersive, inclusive, and exhilarating four-day journey of discovery, connection, and play—brought to you by NM-REAL and our vibrant community of collaborators. Whether you’re coming to learn, to play, to connect—or all of the above—there’s something at KinkToberFest for everyone 21+ who craves excitement, education, and exploration in our community. Kinktoberfest is an inclusive event coordinated by NM-REAL and the community, four fun days in October over three weeks for those 21 years of age and older. Come to just socialize; come to just learn; come to just play; or come to mix and match how you feel. Come solo, come with friends, or come make new ones! Each day blends high- quality educational classes with unforgettable play parties in a welcoming, inclusive space. Think of it as your perfect fall escape—part kinky con, part community gathering, and all unforgettable fun. Two Friday evenings, and one weekend on Saturday and Sunday. The Saturday- Sunday event includes more class time, and a closing community social lunch barbeque. Mark Your Calendar. Grab Your Gear. Tell Your Friends. KinkToberFest is more than an event—it’s a celebration of who we are, how we play, and what we create together. We can’t wait to see you there.
More
About Our
Event
Things We Do
Classes That Empower & Inspire Expect 60-90 minutes class sessions plus one 3-hour intensive! Our classes will be facilitated by instructors from across the country and local expertise. We have space for 16 classes that we’re coordinating now. We expect classes to include Cigar Service & Play, Tools for Resolving Internal Community Conflict, Navigating Dominant Culture Spaces, Rope Series, Electroplay, and many more. Play Parties: Our pansexual, sex-positive play parties are tailored to offer something for everyone. We’ll have separate safe space for female-identifying and male- identifying encounters. Optionally participate in our BDSM areas that includes dungeon equipment. The larger play space is for fun social interactions, sexual explorations, light- volume DJ music, as well as kinky entertainment may entice you. Dungeon space will be quieter for more relaxed social interactions and BDSM play. Our facility has lockers you can use to store your belongings. Bring your own lock or purchase one locally for a small fee. Our party themes will set the mood, but you decide how much to participate. Whether you love costumes, prefer leather, or enjoy going au naturel, you’re welcome here. To fit into the seasonal mood these are our themes: Friday Oct 17 – Carnival of Horror, Friday Oct 24 – Haunted House, Saturday November 1 st – Dia de Muertos (Day of the Dead), Sunday Nov 2 nd – Community. Cost to Attend: Check out the informaiton on this website for ticket cost. Usually the sooner you purchase, the less expensive it will be! Process to Attend: All attendees must be 21+ with government ID and sign a community behavior agreement. Our goal is to foster trust, safety, and joy—together.Vendors & Artisans
We Seek Quality Vendors, Artisans, and Bootblacks for Kinktoberfest! We have space for a limited number of vendors, artisans, and Bootblacks at the event. We typically provide space for each vendor without charge at this time. As we get closer to the events, we can provide more expectation on attendance and discuss your participation. Please contact us.Sponsors
We Seek Community and National Sponsors We appreciate sponsors that help make our event happen! Sponsorships include mention or advertising on various websites, posters or banners at events, handouts, and email notices to attendees. Sponsorships may be tax deductible through our 501c3 status. This may also be a business expense. Please contact us.Educators
We Seek Quality Educators - National & Local! If you have something exciting to teach our community, please contact us about becoming an educator at Kinktoberfest. Please have a clear idea, class summary, explanation of how you’ll teach and what you’ll need. Also please have references that are familiar with your teaching. If you’re new to education, please still contact us so we can help you get started on the fun journey of educating our community. Educators will receive discounts on attendance and may receive other benefits from the KinkToberfest organizing committee. Please contact us.
Find Us:
email: info@kinktoberfest.com
Fet: Kinktoberfest, NM-REAL
FB: facebook.com/NewMexicoREAL
Web: Kintoberfest.com (you’re here now)
Web: nm-real.org
When We Do It
KinkToberFest 2026 will occur in October 2026. Check other parts of the website for more information. We may hold other Kinktoberfest-related events throughout the year. We also hold New Mexico Leather & Kink Fair throughout the year at special events.
Event Partners
We have event partners to help spread the word about other cool events in the community. Check out these events to see if they make sense for you!
